Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Keeping up with the Ooga-Boogas- a shocking realization

So if you want to continue talking about this and to pretend that this downward spiral back down into primordial ooze is headed in the right direction, then I can continue on all day.  I will put you where you belong.  But if you would much rather admit that this is all detrimental to our species, then we can work.  If you would just realize that this is all very harmful, then we can cooperate and be a little smarter.  And we can be more evolved.

*I very recently had a shocking, very unpleasant semi-epiphany.

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First, a review from the early 2000s.

Remember the thing I was talking about earlier, several years ago.  Back then I simply interpreted it thusly.  I had mentioned that many females made stupid, irresponsible, unwise decisions in their youth.  These decisions and actions were regarding her own sexual and medical and psychological health.  Then there were numerous cases where the female, after embroiling herself in that for several years, finally wised up.  She finally sacked up, cleaned herself up, got her act together, and fixed her life.  she finally started to not be stupid nor careless nor irresponsible toward herself.  She finally grew some IQ points.  She finally started choosing men that were decent and clean and respectable.

I was immersed in my liberal ways of thinking back then, so I welcomed this change as a good thing.  Upon hearing another story such as this, I thought to myself, good, finally a female has finally seen the light of day and has decided to follow the straight and narrow path.  Even though she made a slew of life-demolishing decisions back then, perhaps we should do this.  We should all be glad that right here and now, where we stand, the female has taken a stand and has decided to do right and good things for herself.  Let us cast off the shackles of the past, or rather, let her cast off the shackles off her past and not let them chain her down to the gutter any more.  I encouraged myself to be this psychotically optimistic about humanity.

Now that I am inhabiting the pseudo-scientific discipline of evolutionary psychology, I have some unease-causing new interpretations of all this.  None of this is really a good thing.  You are foolhardy if you think that the female's sudden inspiration to turn over a new leaf magically wipes out and erases all of that female's past misdeeds.

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Then, our recent studies and observations.

Look at my own interpretation of evolutionary psychology.  The males that she slept around with in her youth were the type that would have been considered "alpha male" fifty thousand years ago.  "Alpha males" characteristics would have secured a decent and safe lifestyle-- back in those caveman days.  Back when physical prowess and strength directly determined quality of life.  Males waaay back then had to be always very high-strung, on high alert.  They had to have lightning-quick reaction times, to be able to react immediately and with force, to any stimulus of danger.  in order to simply survive, males needed extreme emotional response, the ability to suddenly at a moment's notice react to any danger that will probably appear.

All these extreme, high-alert, fast-twitch responses to an immediate emergency situation type of personality traits went hand-in-hand with a strong, muscular, well-built male body.  A male that was at his physical peak could respond to a dangerous emergency situation most optimally.  It's all biochemistry and physiology, it all fits and gels together.  As we have established, a good-looking caveman male is someone that a cavewoman female would actively seek out to reproduce with, for the aforementioned reasons.

But see, the thing is, those selfsame "alpha male" type characteristics are NOT conducive to a reasonably prosperous, healthy, decent life in the modern day and age.  The caveman alpha traits really would have indicated survival back in caveman days; and they really truly do not work for a stable, successful life in this day n age.  Evolved modern characteristics really are the diametric opposite of that.

Those same qualities (which I have described in great detail in previous essays) are a liability in this day and age.  In this modern day and age, the stimulus of immediate physical dangers lurking everywhere, that threaten our very survival... simply do not exist.  We don't have to worry about huge mastodons or sabretooth tigers roaming the towns, or rival bands of marauding neanderthals ready to rampage a house or apartment and kill everyone in there.

Those types of quick, immediate, and extreme emergency response psychological traits are characteristics not needed in this day and age.  Nowadays, personality traits that are needed for safety and security are quite the opposite.

Nowadays,  the traits of intelligence, high IQ, patience, calm and even temperament, intelligence, ability to focus on seemingly mundane boring tasks for hours on end -- these are the traits that determine success, safety and security.

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Now, the very unpleasant epiphany.  Tying it all together.

Now, however, this hit me like a ton of light bulbs.  I suddenly see how shocking n depressing it is that females whored around in their youthful naive stupid days, then when they got older they decided to settle down with a nice guy that can provide her with a house and financial solvency.

In other words, they have a dried-out, sucked-all-the-juice-and-life-out-of-it, soggy sagging shriveled pruny nasty used-up vg.  They already whiled away their youthful, fertile years chasing after cavemen, males that veritably would have been useful alpha males five-hundred thousand years ago.  And now they want a nice guy gentleman to come pick up the shattered smashed deteriorated smithereens of their life.

Recall the social epidemic of the number of women that have a first child conceived, grown, and born out of wedlock.  To a so-called deadbeat male that has anger issues, temper, most likely violent, has a criminal record, and spends most of his time unemployed.  So these females made those really shtty decisions early in life when they were young.  Now they believe that they have learned the error of their ways, so the second time around they will pick a nice, safe, boring guy who is capable of monetarily supporting them.

My depressing realization.  Holy crap, it is essentially the same thing-- as the depressing, negative side of female evolution that wants to reproduce w a male that has the best physical traits and sexually successful traits.

Cavewoman was constantly on the lookout for more superior male.  She would definitely trade in the current one for a better more advanced model.

In this modern day, a female might want to settle down eventually w a modern-day male.  But her primitive cavewoman urges still cause her to desire and actively seek out a male with the traits that made males superior 500,000 years ago.

Back then in caveman days, stability meant being able to react aggressively and immediately to a very real threat. In order to maintain stability inside the cavehome, you had to constantly be on the alert, fend off persistent threats right outside the cavehome.  This required the caveman to have physical health, solid strong bone structure, height, solid strong musculature, broad shoulders, excellent eyesight, excellent respiratory and sinus health.

This required the caveman to have possibly violent and/or aggressive tendencies.  Because that's what being hyper-vigilant and high-strung means; in order to be able to react to an emergency situation at any given moment, he had to be on emergency alert, hyper-aggressive mode all the time.

Not so much ability to be employed in comfortable air-conditioned office setting, expertise with Microsoft Office Suite, or solid accounting practices.

In order to make the very large distinction of what traits/characteristics are possessed by more evolved humans. •aha yes, thank gud that luckily, I already have numerous material essays upon essays outlining in great detail, what makes a creature more evolved.  Thank God I realized this while I was rereading, so that I would not have to create all this from scratch. bc at first I was very worried terrified that I would have to slog thru my memory n try to rack up decent material as best I can.

In the early 2000s, I had the, 'good at least they are finally turning themselves around.'  In 2005 I had the, 'hoes ruined their lives and I was wrong, they don’t deserve a second chance.'  Also upon reviewing I discovered re-reminded that I was making all sorts of arguments that turned typical evo logic on its head.

The monetary source — in this modern day and age, only comes from non-physically-alpha males.  Not from alpha males.  Since it is not alpha males, therefore the female thinks there is no compelling reason for the male to be around at all.  He's not hot n pretty to look at; so really, why would she need him to stick around at all?  One source of money is the same as another.

I need to really emphasize that this all disgusts me.

ohmigod.  This is the exact same thing that I noticed back in the very early 2000's.  But back then I foolishly thought this was a good thing.  I thought it was a good thing that these females saw the errors of their ways, turned themselves around, and decided to walk the straight and narrow path.

This is horrifying.  This is nauseating and disgusting and deafening.

When she was primitive, bad judgment, bad reasoning, no thought to consequences of her actions.  Not a single neuron function whatsoever dedicated towards what this would do to her children.  She did in fact impregnate herself by the types of males that would have been alpha back then but are society's dregs now.