Sunday, October 21, 2001

More "Jerk" Complaints

Ah excuse me, but why would the guy call after a one-night stand?  You two had a one-night stand.  Isn't that what the agreement was in the first place?  Have sxxee once, and then never again encounter each other.  Pretend for the rest of your lives that you never met.  Conduct your lives as if each of you never knew the other existed.

To be completely honest, I feel like perhaps the best course of action in this situation would be to never speak to each other again.  The situation is too messy, it is too aggravating, it is too much of a pain in the ass.  Just cut off this messy irritating thread in your lives.  I do not think there is any realistic hope to resuscitate this dead, flaccid, sagging non-entity.

Start over anew in a healthy romantic relationship with a completely different person.  Begin another chapter in each of your individual lives with someone new.  This relationship started off on a very negative foot from the word "go."  It never had any potential to go anywhere.  You need to start over with an honest sincere approach.

Meeting some random stranger in a bar or club, hook-ups.  If you are going to do that, then fine, whatever.  That's your business.  But be plain and straightforward and realize that that is not a relationship.  That is not going to go anywhere.  Just let it go.

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