Friday, March 17, 2000

"Men Are Jerks" And Other Musings On Modern Day Dating Nonsense

I find it irritating when all these idiotic females complain that some guy she had sex with did not call her later.  Like she'll have a one-night-stand, and then she will get all upset and angry that he didn't call her.  "Oh how dare he, after they have a one-night-stand, how dare he not call.  Men are such jerks, guys don't call, guys don't treat women with respect."

Wait, hang on a minute.  What were you doing sleeping with a guy so soon in the first place?  You are claiming that he did not treat you with respect.  But you did not treat yourself with respect in the first place.  So basically you are saying that you acted like a slut, and yet you are getting mad that the guy is treating ou like a slut.

If you were truly so worried about establishing some sort of communication pathway, then why didn't you do exactly that?  Why did you not make sure you were in a clearly demarcated relationship in the first place before jumping in the sack?  Because here's the thing.  You are <not> in any sort of commitment.  You are not in a real relationship.  It is a totally insincere arrangement.

I have resorted to calling them "females" rather than addressing them as women or girls.

These females get mad because some random guy didn't call her after a one-night-stand.  Umm, why would he call? It’s not as if you two have a relationship.  You are not in any kind of relationship.  You are not friends, you have no emotional connection, you are not truly a couple.

There is no modicum of an emotional attachment whatsoever.  You are not in any semblance of a couple.  You are not friends.  You have no significant annotated, notated status as a couple.

[[[Oh he’s such a jerk.]]]]
Well, if he is such a jerk, then why did you sleep with him?
I didn’t know he was jerk.
What do you mean you didn’t know he was a jerk?
I just met the guy.
What??  If you just met the guy, then why did you sleep with him?
Because I didn't know he was a jerk, I just met the guy!

What??  Whattya mean you just met the guy?  If you just met they guy, then why did you sleep with him?
Because I didn’t know he was jerk.

((((switch off))))0)))
Well, if he is such a jerk, then why did you sleep with him?
[Then she’ll start whining, ohhh I didn’t know he was a jerk.]]
What do you mean you didn’t know he was a jerk?
[[[Ohhh i didn’t know him that long.]]]
Well, if you didn't know him that long, then why did you sleep with him?
[[[Because he seemed so nice]]
But you said you didn't know him that long.  So you didn't have time to figure out whether he was nice or a jerk.

[[[[ohh how was I supposed to know he would turn out to be a jerk??  Ohh I had no way of knowing he was a jerk.]
What do you mean you had no way of knowing?  Yes, you did have a way of knowing -- you could have waited to get to know him a little better.  You could have waited longer than 72 hours to sleep with him, preferably a hell of a lot longer than that.

Because you didn't know him, you didn’t take the time to get to know him before sleeping with him,

You see how it keeps circling back to the original question.  Why did you sleep with him so soon?

Ohh I didn’t know he was a jerk, he seemed like such a nice guy, he didn’t seem like a jerk.

And you are complaining about this AFTER you already slept with him?  Well, that's kinda why you don't sleep with someone on the first date.  Or the second, or the third, or the fourth, and not for a while.  Because at that point, that individual is still a stranger.  You have not given yourself enough time to gauge this person's personality.  You don't know anything about them, which means that any sort of bad stuff could possibly be lurking in there.  This person could be a jerk, this person could be a serial killer, this person could be a con artist who is only trying to steal all your money.

So again, why did you sleep with him at all?

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