Wednesday, February 28, 2007

I've Noticed A Lot Of Things About Marriage

I've noticed that my own thoughts and opinions on some things have changed.  This is regarding my emotions, the way I react to certain things and react to certain situations.

in all honesty, maybe it's not necessarily for the better in the grans scheme of things in reagrds to the greater cosmic forces of good and evil, in the space-time equilibria.  but it does direclty impact my relationship and my newfound role in life, the way I have to adapt now to relating to all these new people that are now suddently key people in my life.  but it is personal (but to give details wiil show too much about our family drama), and I would like to respect some of our privavcy, so I will not give any detaisl.   ((((i'm talking aobut the, it's not about the bs that people spew from time to time about, oh do the right thing, stand up for justice or some other claptrap liek that.  it is about taking sides. and actually, talking your wife's side at all times _is_ the right thing.  at the end of the day, litera and figuraltievelyk, yoru wife is the perosn you go home to. your wife is the person you have to live with, spend the most time with.  so I suggest that the right thing to do, the _wise_ thing to do, is take your wife's sifde.  lok at the greater pictre, look at the big picture.

I realize thisi is not necessarily better for overcoming social illsl  injustice, simply taking someones's side, like for esxaple a court trial jury should not take any sides.  they are supposed to be impartial, umbiased, make logical rational decisions based on lopgic , reasonsoing, and keep their personal neuroses preferences and hang-ups out of the courtrrom. or liek that one episeode wehre the big gy asked, whose sldie asre you  on, and hte blonde layd sayid, I didnt' realize evidence took sides.

and Im aware it doesn ont always work.  if it is a big thing like your relative or bestest friends is agaisnts the civil rights movemtn, you should do the right thinkg, and do not simply take sides just 'cause taht is your bestest freirnd.

like that episode of zebna where her baby dady stood for the right thing, sttod for justice and took the opposing side in a war bc it was the right side, and did not supprot esxxana bc her side was the wrong side even though they got knocked up.

I was just a huge advocate for taking sides.  in all materrs of the family, pick a side.  the one that you are closer to.  I realized how importatn this was, how essential it was to hold your immediate family together in commuity, and in that instant I realized-slash-decided that all that bs about impartial unsided unopinionated social dealings(activism) do-the-right-thing crap flew and crashed out the window. no. that is no longer the matter.  the most important thing is taking sides.  but I have cooled down a bit and mellowed since then. ))))

oh, we've been tested.  all sorts of shit, in-laws being a great factor.  (in this tangled web we call life.)

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