Okay, I realize this might be a weird segue, but in a way it works. This has always bothered me, and now I can express the verbiage for why.
The inklings of when I first realized there are diff kinds of love. Like, why are there so many romance stories in which a young girl or young person forsakes their own family that they were born into... for the sake of some silly romance? They say they yearn for love, they say they want love.
But the thing is, they already <have> love. They already have people who love them and care about them. Who have concern for their well-being.
I am not understanding why they would give up one love... for another. What makes the other kind of love so great?
I have noticed that when most people say "love" as in the romantic sense, oftentimes they really do not mean "love" at all. They mean lust, infatuation, obsession, or possession (like Sarah McLachlan's "possession").
What are the elements of love?
This is what must exist for romantic love to be genuine and sincere. This is what elevates it from being merely cheap lust/infatuation/etc. to being actual <love.> So that in the romantic situation, it is worthy of honestly being called love. It must transcend merely the physical attraction. This pretty much reiterates what I have been saying all this time. There must be emotional connection. There must be genuine sincere close friendship.
These are the components of love. They must be present in the familial love. And they must be present in the romantic/relationship type love. but from what I am seeing, a lot of times the___
=••=>> major breakthrough -- theij is my essay wjrrn I that there are different kinds of love.
I do not regard a spouse/boyfriend in the same manner that I regard my parents. Romantic love is an entirely different species from the parent-child bond.
One thing that needs to be noted. One very important difference is that in the parent-child relationship, the two participants are not equals to each other. This is true of the mother-and-child relationship, and this is true of the father-and-child relationship.
Anndd they are not supposed to be. You better believe the parents are higher in status and rank than you are. They are the Authority. They are your parents, they are raising you and supporting you. They brought you into this world. You are not equal to them. [[like Bill Cosby said,]]]
Whereas, consider a romantic/sexual relationship such as marriage, including the above-mentioned mother and father. The manner in which they regard each other must involve mutual respect and_____
The two people must be equals. (((import bit cut out from "commun in dating" essay))))
--You do not have the same relationship with every one of your family members. You do not have the same relationship with your sister as you do with your mother. You do not have the same relationship with your brother as you do with your father.
The inklings of when I first realized there are diff kinds of love. Like, why are there so many romance stories in which a young girl or young person forsakes their own family that they were born into... for the sake of some silly romance? They say they yearn for love, they say they want love.
But the thing is, they already <have> love. They already have people who love them and care about them. Who have concern for their well-being.
I am not understanding why they would give up one love... for another. What makes the other kind of love so great?
I have noticed that when most people say "love" as in the romantic sense, oftentimes they really do not mean "love" at all. They mean lust, infatuation, obsession, or possession (like Sarah McLachlan's "possession").
What are the elements of love?
This is what must exist for romantic love to be genuine and sincere. This is what elevates it from being merely cheap lust/infatuation/etc. to being actual <love.> So that in the romantic situation, it is worthy of honestly being called love. It must transcend merely the physical attraction. This pretty much reiterates what I have been saying all this time. There must be emotional connection. There must be genuine sincere close friendship.
These are the components of love. They must be present in the familial love. And they must be present in the romantic/relationship type love. but from what I am seeing, a lot of times the___
=••=>> major breakthrough -- theij is my essay wjrrn I that there are different kinds of love.
I do not regard a spouse/boyfriend in the same manner that I regard my parents. Romantic love is an entirely different species from the parent-child bond.
One thing that needs to be noted. One very important difference is that in the parent-child relationship, the two participants are not equals to each other. This is true of the mother-and-child relationship, and this is true of the father-and-child relationship.
Anndd they are not supposed to be. You better believe the parents are higher in status and rank than you are. They are the Authority. They are your parents, they are raising you and supporting you. They brought you into this world. You are not equal to them. [[like Bill Cosby said,]]]
Whereas, consider a romantic/sexual relationship such as marriage, including the above-mentioned mother and father. The manner in which they regard each other must involve mutual respect and_____
The two people must be equals. (((import bit cut out from "commun in dating" essay))))
--You do not have the same relationship with every one of your family members. You do not have the same relationship with your sister as you do with your mother. You do not have the same relationship with your brother as you do with your father.
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