Oh, another one that I remember. This next one is even worse, if that is even possible. At least the "marriage" manipulation had an end goal in mind, as disgusting as the tactics might be.
It was like, she didn't want to be the bad guy or something. (???) So instead of telling the guy she wanted to break up with him....
She in that stead, starting acting like a really horrible gf. She started acting all b-tchy and whiny. The most disgusting versions of this were, a female cheated on her boyfriend, yup, being a slut. Then that would force the male to break up with her. Effectively putting all the responsibility and onus of initiating the break-up -- onto the guy. She decided to make it <his> burden to terminate the relationship and leave.
Good god, man. Does it never end? Is there no limit to the depths of twisted dishonesty that people try to pull, out in the morass of the dating world? This is just additional utter bs. Just break up with the guy, already. For once in your life, be honest and straightforward. Try it, just once.
Then Dr. Phil said this manipulation business was "gutless, cowardly." Yes! Exactly. That was exactly the sentiment I was trying to express. And he said this was some "passive-aggressive" nonsense. Oh, so that's what the term "pass-aggressive" means. I had never bothered to learn the definition of that phrase, simply because I could tell from context that it was not any honest, straightforward behavior. Even the phrase itself sounds like some wishy-washy melodrama.
It was like, she didn't want to be the bad guy or something. (???) So instead of telling the guy she wanted to break up with him....
She in that stead, starting acting like a really horrible gf. She started acting all b-tchy and whiny. The most disgusting versions of this were, a female cheated on her boyfriend, yup, being a slut. Then that would force the male to break up with her. Effectively putting all the responsibility and onus of initiating the break-up -- onto the guy. She decided to make it <his> burden to terminate the relationship and leave.
Good god, man. Does it never end? Is there no limit to the depths of twisted dishonesty that people try to pull, out in the morass of the dating world? This is just additional utter bs. Just break up with the guy, already. For once in your life, be honest and straightforward. Try it, just once.
Then Dr. Phil said this manipulation business was "gutless, cowardly." Yes! Exactly. That was exactly the sentiment I was trying to express. And he said this was some "passive-aggressive" nonsense. Oh, so that's what the term "pass-aggressive" means. I had never bothered to learn the definition of that phrase, simply because I could tell from context that it was not any honest, straightforward behavior. Even the phrase itself sounds like some wishy-washy melodrama.
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