[[[[I’ve heard about and read about way too many stories in which a female sleeps with a male way too soon. She thinks he seems like a great guy. But then after she sleeps with him, he reveals his true nature. He is an abusive stalker, etc. etc., an alcoholic, something or other.
It seems that the problem was that she slept with the male long before she actually knew for a fact whether or not he was a good guy.
]]]]
Try to find one guy who is a very nice guy. Then wait a while until you actually *get to know* the guy. Wait until there is a definite distinct demarcated commitment. And then if you can truly say that you two have connected on every level, then sure, go ahead and have sex. If he is any type of gentleman and he wants to make any sort of emotional investment into the relationship with you, then he will respect your choices.
Subtle hint: no two people on the planet can get to truly know each other after only a handful of dates. The only possible exceptions to that rule are close blood relatives. And consanguineous relationships are probably not a good idea, either.
From what I can tell, most people seem to lie through their teeth on a first date with any given person. That includes males and females. Same goes for the second or third date. Unfortunately the female is of the opinion that she knows enough about a guy just a couple of dates later. You know, that he makes a six-figure income who is a motorcycle rider in his spare time and also co-founded Habitat for Humanity and rescues orphaned puppies. And she thinks that is sufficient to justify sleeping with him. And then of course, a while *later,* all the crapola comes flying out and all the lies are exposed and she feels like a dumbarsse, as well she should.
I remember reading stuff about this all through middle school and high school. There were many entries in psychology magazines as well, which were very informative. Those psychology periodicals were the rare sources where authors were actually one hundred percent truthful about the emotional consequences of promiscuity. They straightforwardly addressed the psychological scarring, the gradual decline of people’s standards. The gradual decline of people’s expectations in relationships.
Moving forward wwwayyyy tooo soon on the superficial stuff. Yet still lagging and sagging behind on the abstract profound stuff.
I've seen it happen over and over and over again -- two people go forth with sex waaaayyy too soon -- before they know each other truly on any level whatsoever. And it usually ends up biting them in the arsse. Look around you at people who sleep together after only a few days of dating or some such.
In most cases, it is especially almost always the female that ends up getting screwed over the most. She is the one who ends up an emotional wreck after the "relationship" fizzles out and burns out like a cheap candle. She is the one left with more severe STDs, and chances are she is left with an unwanted pregnancy. By all means, get an abortion. I'm not being facetious. You’ve already screwed up your life, no need to produce a genetic semi-copy of yourself that will probably also screw up its life. Nip it in the bud. I'm being dead serious, I'm all for it.
It seems that the problem was that she slept with the male long before she actually knew for a fact whether or not he was a good guy.
]]]]
Try to find one guy who is a very nice guy. Then wait a while until you actually *get to know* the guy. Wait until there is a definite distinct demarcated commitment. And then if you can truly say that you two have connected on every level, then sure, go ahead and have sex. If he is any type of gentleman and he wants to make any sort of emotional investment into the relationship with you, then he will respect your choices.
Subtle hint: no two people on the planet can get to truly know each other after only a handful of dates. The only possible exceptions to that rule are close blood relatives. And consanguineous relationships are probably not a good idea, either.
From what I can tell, most people seem to lie through their teeth on a first date with any given person. That includes males and females. Same goes for the second or third date. Unfortunately the female is of the opinion that she knows enough about a guy just a couple of dates later. You know, that he makes a six-figure income who is a motorcycle rider in his spare time and also co-founded Habitat for Humanity and rescues orphaned puppies. And she thinks that is sufficient to justify sleeping with him. And then of course, a while *later,* all the crapola comes flying out and all the lies are exposed and she feels like a dumbarsse, as well she should.
I remember reading stuff about this all through middle school and high school. There were many entries in psychology magazines as well, which were very informative. Those psychology periodicals were the rare sources where authors were actually one hundred percent truthful about the emotional consequences of promiscuity. They straightforwardly addressed the psychological scarring, the gradual decline of people’s standards. The gradual decline of people’s expectations in relationships.
Moving forward wwwayyyy tooo soon on the superficial stuff. Yet still lagging and sagging behind on the abstract profound stuff.
I've seen it happen over and over and over again -- two people go forth with sex waaaayyy too soon -- before they know each other truly on any level whatsoever. And it usually ends up biting them in the arsse. Look around you at people who sleep together after only a few days of dating or some such.
In most cases, it is especially almost always the female that ends up getting screwed over the most. She is the one who ends up an emotional wreck after the "relationship" fizzles out and burns out like a cheap candle. She is the one left with more severe STDs, and chances are she is left with an unwanted pregnancy. By all means, get an abortion. I'm not being facetious. You’ve already screwed up your life, no need to produce a genetic semi-copy of yourself that will probably also screw up its life. Nip it in the bud. I'm being dead serious, I'm all for it.
0 Comments:
Post a Comment