Be honest with yourself. Do you really think you are completely 100 percent blameless and without responsibility in this situation? If a woman finds herself in this type of situation, she needs to examine all the decisions she has made that led to this point. She would find that she has to accept responsibility. I just find it very hard to believe that anyone would even let themselves get it this situation in the first place.
Think about all the conversations you have had with your boyfriend. It is not realistic for you as a grown woman to deny that you are responsible for what you do in your own life. I simply am unable to trudge up any sympathy whatsoever for a grown-ass woman that still possesses sh*tty decision-making skills, woefully effed-up poor taste in men, and general sh*tty life-management skills.
The female is not blameless, not by a long shot. Look, you are a grown-ass woman. Therefore you need to take some damn responsibility for your own life. You are choosing this pathetic mediocre timeline of your own free will. And when you start complaining that a man is the cause of all your problems, I really don't have any sympathy for you. You started complaining about him the minute the two of you slept together, "oh why doesn't he call, why is he so bad at communication, why does he treat me like crap barking and yelling at me and having no respect or regard for me," ad ilk.
Please shut up, I don't want to hear it. I have zero tolerance for this on-again off-again crap. You are the one who was a horrible judge of character, who chose to let yourself fall into infatuation and cheap surface emotions with a complete stranger. You didn't stop to think, "wait a minute, who the hell is this guy?” Do you really know anything about him? Have you made any kind of genuine emotional connection? Have you truly put any effort into getting to know each other before jumping into bed together?
If the male is so bad, which he is -- I agree with you there -- then why the hell are you choosing to be with him? You didn't have any respect for yourself, for your own body or for your own emotions. And yet you expect the male to have respect for you. You should have been treading a more carefully.
Think about all the conversations you have had with your boyfriend. It is not realistic for you as a grown woman to deny that you are responsible for what you do in your own life. I simply am unable to trudge up any sympathy whatsoever for a grown-ass woman that still possesses sh*tty decision-making skills, woefully effed-up poor taste in men, and general sh*tty life-management skills.
The female is not blameless, not by a long shot. Look, you are a grown-ass woman. Therefore you need to take some damn responsibility for your own life. You are choosing this pathetic mediocre timeline of your own free will. And when you start complaining that a man is the cause of all your problems, I really don't have any sympathy for you. You started complaining about him the minute the two of you slept together, "oh why doesn't he call, why is he so bad at communication, why does he treat me like crap barking and yelling at me and having no respect or regard for me," ad ilk.
Please shut up, I don't want to hear it. I have zero tolerance for this on-again off-again crap. You are the one who was a horrible judge of character, who chose to let yourself fall into infatuation and cheap surface emotions with a complete stranger. You didn't stop to think, "wait a minute, who the hell is this guy?” Do you really know anything about him? Have you made any kind of genuine emotional connection? Have you truly put any effort into getting to know each other before jumping into bed together?
If the male is so bad, which he is -- I agree with you there -- then why the hell are you choosing to be with him? You didn't have any respect for yourself, for your own body or for your own emotions. And yet you expect the male to have respect for you. You should have been treading a more carefully.
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